Tag: hot mess
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When Life Says “You Good?” and Then Doesn’t Wait for Your Answer
(Honestly, at this point a hospital stay sounds like a spa retreat) You know that moment where you’re already at capacity: like phone-storage-at-99%-with-37-tabs-open capacity, and then life taps you on the shoulder and says, “Hey bestie, quick thing…” Yeah. That’s been my entire week. Currently, I’m running what can only be described as an unlicensed…
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Life Lately: The Messy Middle
Whew. It’s been a while, huh? If you’ve been wondering where I disappeared to—well, I’ve been busy being in the downs of life. (And let me tell you, 0/10, would not recommend.) The past few months have been a mix of stress, overwhelm, and way too many “just one more thing” moments. You know the…
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Make AI Work for You
Today I sat in on a class about AI tools, and I walked away with a handful of insights that anyone can use, whether you’re a total beginner or you’ve already been dabbling. 1. Personalize your AI.Give it a chance to learn you. Upload a personality test, feed it your writing samples, or flat-out tell…
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Five Years In
Technically, my five-year (business) anniversary was yesterday. But I was busy outside, getting sunburnt at the playground, so today it is. Here’s the truth: a lot of small businesses don’t make it here. Some days, I don’t even know how I have. Some days, I wonder if I still want to. But the people I…
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The Day That Split My Year in Two
August 21st is a date etched in my bones. By then, 2024 had already taken its swings—my nephew’s death in March, the doctor’s words in July that felt like my own death sentence. I was standing, but barely. And then the phone rang. It was my sister. My brother-in-law, my brother, really, because family is…
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Storytime: The Day That Wouldn’t Quit
So, picture this: I stumble to the shower this morning, still half-asleep, and there it is. A massive spider. Like, the kind of spider that probably pays rent. (Well, it should have been but neither it, nor my dog are helping with that.) And it saw me. With all of its eyes. Nekkid. Unprovoked. Honestly,…
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A Wild Tuesday Night (VFW Bingo Edition)
Today was one of those steady, uneventful workdays. I went out to the office, caught up with a few of my real estate clients, checked things off the list, and kept the wheels turning. Nothing flashy, nothing dramatic, just business as usual. Which is kind of funny, because last weekend was supposed to be uneventful…
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Rainy Days, Early Flights and Rest as the Work
Today started at an ungodly hour; the kind that should only belong to insomniacs, night-shift bakers, (and my boyfriend.) I was up before the sun, driving someone to the airport so she could get to her mother-in-law, who recently dealt with a medical issue. By the time most people were hitting snooze, I’d already logged…
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The Catch-Up Illusion: How I Nearly Burned Out Trying to Get Ahead
Right now, I’m in that awkward space between hustle mode and uh-oh-I’m-running-on-fumes. I’ve been working hard lately, juggling client projects, newspaper deadlines, and trying to get new blog posts out into the world. The to-do list keeps growing, and I keep telling myself: “If I just work a little harder, I’ll catch up.” Except… here’s…
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Let’s Just Start Here
So I guess this is the beginning. I’ve thought about blogging (consistently) for years, usually in the middle of doing laundry, walking a dog, or working on someone else’s dream while mine sits in a Google Doc. I kept telling myself I’d start when I had a clear direction or a “niche.” But that’s not…
The A La Carte 