Tag: hot mess
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Ask AI to Describe You as…
This one was kind of fun. The prompt is ask AI to describe you as if they were warning someone before they meet you… WARNING: You are about to meet Ande. Proceed accordingly. She is going to seem friendly, funny, capable, and relatively normal at first. This is how she gets you. Within an alarmingly…
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Apparently, People Are Paying Attention
Friday morning, I was sitting down with a new client. Except “new client” doesn’t really explain the relationship. I’ve known him for a while through the business world. Somewhere along the way, we went from people who knew each other professionally to actual friends. We’ve gone out, talked about our businesses, talked about life, and…
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Sometimes Healing Looks Like 79-Cent 3D Glasses
For the last few years, I was the Fourth of July party host. My house overlooked the biggest fireworks show in town, so everyone came to us. If there’s one thing my mom knows how to do, it’s host a party. She always had everything organized, the food ready, and people gathered together. It became…
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Sometimes the Internet Surprises You.
A couple of months ago, I stumbled across an ad asking people to nominate someone in their community who deserved a new roof. My first thought was immediately of my sister, Nicole, and brother-in-law, Chris. Their roof is original to the house. It’s been needing replacement for years, and it’s something we’ve talked about more…
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The World Doesn’t Stop for Grief
Last Sunday, I lost my dog. Even typing that sentence feels strange. Partly because I still don’t want it to be true. Partly because life has a funny way of demanding your attention even when your heart is somewhere else. I’ve gone back and forth on whether I wanted to write about this. Not because…
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Becoming My Own Client
One of the more humbling parts of running a business is realizing that eventually, if you’re lucky, you’ll run into the same problems your clients have. I know. I was hoping that wasn’t true too. For years, I’ve helped business owners navigate growth. Not the flashy kind that makes headlines. The messy kind. The kind…
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The Horrors of Medication Changes
Especially the kind that are supposed to keep you alive, sane, stable. People talk about medication changes so casually sometimes. “Just switch meds.” “Maybe increase the dose.” “You can always try something else.” As if changing psychiatric medications is the same thing as switching laundry detergent and not a complete neurological demolition project. Because some…
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Not Quite a Vacation
When I said I was going on vacation, what I really meant was: I was taking my aunt to San Diego for Parkinson’s treatment and research. Not exactly margaritas and sightseeing. There were moments of sunshine, yes. Palm trees. Warmer weather. A hotel pool. But underneath all of it was the weight of something much…
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Life Lately
(aka rebuilding, refining, and starting over… all at once) t’s been a minute. And honestly? That tracks. Life hasn’t exactly been “sit down and write a thoughtful blog post” kind of calm lately. It’s been more… put out fires, keep things moving, circle back later. So here we are. Circling back. Life update… because that’s…
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When Life Says “You Good?” and Then Doesn’t Wait for Your Answer
(Honestly, at this point a hospital stay sounds like a spa retreat) You know that moment where you’re already at capacity: like phone-storage-at-99%-with-37-tabs-open capacity, and then life taps you on the shoulder and says, “Hey bestie, quick thing…” Yeah. That’s been my entire week. Currently, I’m running what can only be described as an unlicensed…
The A La Carte 